assalamualaikum :)
well , actually i have only an hour to write this post.
due to the time constraint i'm having now,
i'll skip the introduction part.
because i'm pretty sure that it will consume 3/4 of the precious hour.
A LONG DISTANCE FRIENDSHIP.
i decided to write about this since a junior of mine keeps on updating his FB status talking about friendship and stuff.
so i would like to dedicate this to THAT particular person and some other best buddies that used to wipe my tears and lend me their warm shoulders.
when i was in high school,
the term 'friendship' taught me a lot.
a series of chapters in every single semester,
i learnt it the hard way.
the ups and downs,
the difficulties i kept on having,
my best buddies never fail in cheering me up.
(and help me solve the problems off course)
the bonds became stronger and stronger,
until when the time came.
THE FAREWELL PARTY
we vowed to each other that we'll be siblings forever.
but the distance kept on bothering me.
it was and still is hard to keep in touch.
everybody seems busy with their own studies.
i myself have things to take care of.
the shoulders that were always there when we were in need, disappeared.
like almost totally.
misunderstandings engulfed easily.
ANOTHER CHAPTER OF FRIENDSHIP i can say.
i realized one thing. or maybe two.
distance is the best tool to determine the strength of the bonds created between us.
HOWEVER
the methods to determine the strength will always be different.
and i found MY METHOD is way different from theirs.
UNDERSTANDING will neutralize the difference, i believe.
no text message doesn't mean that i forget them
to me,
being in a long distance friendships is the coolest way to keep the bonds strong.
1. I will start to miss them so badly.
(and it feels great to miss someone precious)
2. no more warm shoulders to lean on.
(it makes me stronger and helps me stand on my own feet. and it makes me happy when i think of the crying shoulders that are waiting for me to lean on.)
3. i'll always turn to my best buddies when it comes to important events.
(because special stories are only for special people, right?)
4. etc.
(sorry,i'm running out of time!)
so,
i would like to say THANK YOU for being my best friends to those people who were and still are always there for me.
you know who you are.
and to my always-mushy?-BEE-buddy,
LET'S KEEP THE BOND STRONG !
p/s: sorry for not mentioning names.
i guess you know where you stand.
57 seconds left.
AWESOME! :D
okay back to my MPW notes now. bye :)
okay back to my MPW notes now. bye :)
i wont give up :)
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ReplyDeleteZara this is beautiful like seriously <3
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